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http://TarotSchool.com ISSN: 1529-0565 Vol. 14 #4 April 1, 2022
In this Issue: - Welcome
- Tarot Tip: Psychological Challenges in Tarot: VI The Lovers – Codependence - Wald's Words of Wisdom - That's Cool!: Divination Divided Layouts Book - Diviner's Corner: Oenomancy - Meet the Reader: Mary Brown - Best Practices: Understanding Your Client's Buyer's Journey Map - Upcoming Events Welcome to a new issue of Tarot Tips!
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PSYCHOLOGICAL CHALLENGES IN TAROT:
VI THE LOVERS — CODEPENDENCE by Katrina Wynne, MA, CTM, CTI, CLC You’ve heard, or even experienced this story…a Tarot client cries on your shoulder and tells you about how much they love someone, but something is not quite right…they ask the cards…“What’s wrong with X?”…in other words…fix them. You may have your personal ethics about whether to read for those who are not present for the reading, but to tell you the truth, the client’s issue has nothing to do with anyone other than themself…the one who came in for guidance. VI The Lovers has a great deal to teach us about relationships and typical scenarios like this one, the “Shadow” side of the card. Co-dependence is one of the relationship issues that is quite common. When one partner feels like their life does not have meaning without the object of their love, or when their self-esteem or identity, their life force, is dependent upon the attention of the other, these are danger signs. Here are some of the red lights to look for with your clients: 1. Poor self-esteem or depression 2. Lacks boundaries, manipulation 3. Enmeshment & dependence 4. Enabling others 5. Anxiety, jealousy, “victim” 6. Self-abuse – substances (food, drugs) 7. Abuse by other (mental, physical, sexual) 8. Insecure Attachment Style Typically, there are continuous ups and downs, or a push-pull dynamic, between the couple, thus the need for repeat visits for consulting the cards. • As a reader how can you help these clients? First, I would evaluate my “scope of practice” and determine whether to refer the client to a mental health professional, especially if you see signs of abuse. If this is a mild case, the focus is best placed upon the client and their well-being, asking for guidance from the cards that strengthen their self-esteem, supports self-love…which increases one’s attractiveness. • What if the client still wants to fix the other person? Then, my friend, you may need to check your own boundaries and ethics. Is the focus on providing information, or manipulation? On a more personal note…is it an act of codependence to rely on repeat clients who are clearly stuck in patterns of abuse, mild or severe? You see, The Lovers has lessons for readers as well, and as it is said, “Healer heal thyself.” We live in a world where popular movies romanticize enmeshed and codependent love stories, so no wonder we are confused about the real experience of love. I hope your personal journey with Tarot has brought you clarity, so your light can shine for others. About Katrina: ![]() Katrina Wynne, MA, CTM, CTI, CLC is an internationally renowned Transformative Tarot Counselor™ and trained psychotherapist with close to 50 years’ experience living the wisdom of Tarot. Contact Katrina at: TarotCounseling.org - website MySacredJourney.org - weblog OracleSoup.org - podcast Facebook.com/katrina.wynne/ Wald's Words of Wisdom ![]() ![]() "DIVINATION DIVIDED" LAYOUTS BOOK ![]() When I was young, one of my favorite books was a mixed-up animals flip book. The pages were divided into horizontal sections that you'd flip to make crazy creatures such as one that had the head of a monkey, the body of a tiger, and the feet of a duck. It was so much fun! The ever-creative Karin Dalton-Smith has adapted that idea and made a book of tarot spread layouts! This is what she says about it: "This book is unique that it has the dividing line cut through the middle so you can mix and match whatever layouts you choose. I have designed and created this book of spreads so you have 900 layout combinations. I have left blank spaces on the back of each page for you to also write in your own layouts. If you write in your own then you have a book with 1800 combinations. It can be used with ANY divination cards such as Tarot, Lenormand, Tea cards, Gypsy, Kipper etc. You can even use charms, coins, runes, stones or bones. The list is endless." For a preview of this book visit this link: https://youtu.be/8YTeZZ98LNk Be sure to check out Karin's website for this and other wonderful divination creations, including her award-winning sTEAmpunk Tea Leaf Fortune Telling Cards. https://www.teawithkarin.com/home Diviner's Corner
OENOMANCY
![]() by Lizzie Burgess I absolutely have a different colder night idea for you when our activities can be limited (in Winter, in limited resources, and in energy). I feel that it’s an easy practice to try at home. Oenomancy (pronounced en-oh-man-see) is an ancient way of divination similar to tasseomancy/ tea-leaf reading but by using wine. Scrying into the glass itself, or by reading the sediments, or even by looking over spilled wine on a napkin/table – you look for shapes, symbols, any intuition you get. By interpreting these, you can divine answers to questions or even potentially predict future events. Oenomancy is a form of hydromancy; water-based scrying (like hydatoscopy, which is great with rainwater). And what is scrying, you may ask? Simply put, gazing at an object for imagery/messages and divining answers/the future through symbolism, shapes and movement. It’s a great low key divination because you can simply be enjoying a drink in the bath (for those with low energy) or if you are surrounded by people (for those in the closet but want to receive an answer quicker than waiting to be alone). I like to use oenomancy for colder evenings in front of a fire, in bath rituals, as part of Sabbat celebrations, and with intention candles for their outcomes. Oenomancy Ritual (Wine Scrying)You will need:• Your choice of wine (non-alcoholic, low-cal, expensive, super-extra merlot, or whatever floats your boat) in a clear glass • Your choice of music in the background (I recommend 432hz for focus and intuition.) • Pen, paper or your notes page on your phone (to jot down any ideas that come to you for research and reflection later) • A candle positioned safely behind your glass (so you can see the light through and around the wine in the glass) • Prepare an affirmation to speak aloud (such as “I can understand unknowable things”, “If things are hard to process, I can take it”, “My intuition guides me to a deeper understanding,” etc.) • A plate or large piece of paper for droplets • Washed clean hands 1. Cleanse, protect and ward the space that you’ll be working in. I may be secular, but I’m also not one to take risks. 2. Ground yourself so that you remain focused on the task at hand; if you feel yourself getting too distracted, maybe take a break and try another time. 3. Put your music on, get settled somewhere comfortable, light your candle & pour yourself a glass. 4. State aloud an intuition affirmation. When you feel your personal power build, that is when you are ready to receive messages. 5. Spend some time noting the colours, the smells, even the symbolism on the label. Take a sip, explore the flavours and see if it reminds you of a place or person. During all this take notes, even if it doesn’t make sense to you in the moment. 6. Continue to enjoy your drink and if you choose, dip a clean finger in your drink, allow a drop or two to fall onto a plate to create more shapes or symbols. 7. When you feel it is time to stop, snuff out your candle giving thanks to the universe/spirit guides/deities/yourself for working on this. Then research what your notes mean! Ecosia & Google search engines are a blessing, but there are many divination meaning books out there you can read or download. You are also always welcome to reach out to me if you feel like you’d enjoy a conversation to explore these themes deeper! 8. Whilst it is important to enjoy yourself, please drink responsibly. About Lizzie: ![]() Lizzie Burgess has been making divination accessible for those on low budgets, with low energy and those who want to keep their spirituality low key. She provides divination experiences for insight, ideas and innovation to professional witches worldwide and offers free resources on her website: backyardbanshee.com We’d love your suggestion or submissions for this column! If you have an idea or would like to contribute, please contact us at tarot@tarotschool.com. Meet The Reader MARY BROWN By Sharonah Rapseik, Ph.D., CMAP ![]() Mary Brown is the Vice President of the Tarot Guild and Director of Communications. She is a radio personality on the "Psychic Talk Radio Network," and has interviewed some of the biggest stars in Hollywood as an entertainment journalist. Her monthly column, "Unveiled ... with Mary Brown" is available exclusively on the Tarot Guild website. She is a Tarot Guild Certified Tarot Master, a Crystal Reiki Master, and is the “creatrix” of the upcoming "Tarot History Mystery Game." Sharonah Rapseik: Mary, what makes your tarot practice unique and how do you express it? Mary Brown: I incorporate crystals into my Tarot practice. They are always on my tarot table. How and why they got there to begin with I can't say for sure, but it feels intentional. I keep crystals in the bags that I keep my "working" Tarot decks in, for obvious reasons. Really, it is just my way of greeting new decks. I gift them a crystal as a "housewarming" gift. I know what it's like to be the new kid in the neighborhood and I want them to know they're welcome. My Tarot clients often ask me for suggestions of crystals that might help them. There is always a crystal that fits the bill, no matter what their situation is. In fact, I do a monthly radio show on the Psychic Talk Radio Network called, "There's A Rock For That!" where I explore the history, folklore, metaphysical properties, and healing applications of crystals. My show airs the first Saturday of every month. I love to create “Crystal Helper” kits that I bring with me to psychic fairs and events, and I love gifting crystals to people I meet. They always bring a smile and evoke curiosity, and sometimes that is exactly what is needed at that moment. Tarot is helpful to me when it comes to choosing the appropriate stone for clients. Someone benefits from a crystal in much the same way as they benefit from a Tarot reading. On some level, they have to choose to absorb it to a certain extent. They may be fine without it, but they might be even better if they open up to the information and feelings of the crystal. Regardless of their choice, they must make their own decisions. They consult me. I suggest. They decide. Crystals and Tarot are both enriching and fascinating roads on which we can journey, and for me, the paths intertwine. I am honored to be part of the continuum of stone guardians and crystal healers stretching across millennia, and a link in the amazing chain of Tarot readers spanning centuries. Tarot is my central practice and crystals make it rock! Sharonah Rapseik: Thank you Mary, it’s been a pleasure to meet you! To follow Mary: About Sharonah: ![]() Sharonah Rapseik is an Artist / Designer, Author, Tarot Reader, Radio Host and Producer for Psychic Talk Radio. Visit her at: https://psychictalk.net/sharonah/ Best Practices for Professional Readers UNDERSTANDING YOUR CLIENT'S BUYER'S JOURNEY MAP By Gina Thies www.tarotadvisor.com / www.facebook.com/tarotreaders www.tarotcoupling.com / www.oraclesoup.org How well do you know your clients? You may know or learn details of their lives from sessions where they have shared intimate details about their life’s journey. These details could be the key to understanding how to find similar clients and future opportunities to expand your business. The details of why they are using your services becomes important for content creation for your website or social media outlets. When a new client books an appointment with me, I always ask how they found me or what led them to me. Discovering how clients became aware of your services is essential to understanding how they found you from the start. You have to think in terms of a buyer's map. This is the path that consumers take in the journey to purchase a product or service. It begins with what they know or want to know about what they intend to purchase. This means an inquiry via yes –– you’ve guessed it –– search engine queries, referrals, inquiries, and previous experiences with a similar product or service. Most people might chance spending on something that doesn’t break the bank, but may spend more if it truly meets their needs. Creating a buyer's journey map will help you understand strengths and weaknesses in business growth opportunities based on the clients you already serve. The map will provide direction on who to target with your marketing and to pay more attention to the path your clients take to find your services. Depending upon the model you choose for your map, there can be four or five stages: 1 - Awareness 2 - Consideration 3 - Decision 4 - Retention Some models also include Advocacy. In each stage, customers take different actions, seek additional information, and may or may not engage with you along the way. Advocacy is great because this is where a client will refer you and share with others what they love about you. In refining your buyer's journey map you will be able to cast not just a wider net but attract clients for better conversion as well. Resources: • How To Map the Buyer's Journey in 7 Easy Steps clariantcreative.com/blog/how-to-map-the-buyers-journey • How to Create an Effective Customer Journey Map [Examples + Template] https://blog.hubspot.com/service/customer-journey-map Upcoming Events: ![]() Tarot Salon on Zoom! 7:00 - 9:00 pm EST Our popular Monday night classes are now online so you can attend no matter where you live! April: 4 - Issues of the 4 Knights 11 - Esoterica of the 4 Knights 18 - Birth Cards: Wheel-Magician 25 - TBA Get on the notification list to see what we'll be teaching each week. 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